Years ago my brother-in-law, who is a tall, blue-eyed, blond-haired WASP from Ohio, told my sister, who is a tall, brown-eyed, olive-skinned Jew from New York, that when he first laid eyes on her he was struck by her exotic looks. “Exotic!!?” she cried, “Where I come from, Meg Ryan is exotic.” Exoticism, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder and has everything to do with your frame of reference. Continue reading

